Done In Love
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Practical Tools + Professional Guidance for Christians
A Membership Community Where You Become Emotionally Healthy & Spiritually Alive — Whether You Join Alone or Together
Coming
July 1!
But you’ve been praying for something to change.
Maybe the distance between you keeps growing.
Maybe every conversation turns into conflict — or worse, silence.
Maybe trust has been broken… or it was never fully built.
Or maybe you’re simply feeling the weight of disconnection and wondering, “Is this really all there is?”
But you’ve been praying for something to change.
Maybe the distance between you keeps growing.
Maybe every conversation turns into conflict — or worse, silence.
Maybe trust has been broken… or it was never fully built.
Or maybe you’re simply feeling the weight of disconnection and wondering, “Is this really all there is?”
You want more than just coexisting.
You want better communication.
You want a deeper connection.
Peace. Partnership.
You want to honor God in your marriage —
and experience the kind of relationship He designed.
something inside you knows this isn’t what God wants for your marriage.
And maybe your spouse sees it too…
Or maybe you’re the only one ready to do something about it.
You’re not alone.
And it’s not too late.
You want more than just coexisting.
You want better communication.
You want a deeper connection.
Peace. Partnership.
You want to honor God in your marriage —
and experience the kind of relationship
He designed.
The Done in Love Membership gives you tools, support, and expert guidance to transform your marriage —
from the inside out.
Led by Jenna Shaffer, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and committed Christian. This membership combines faith, wisdom, & 10+ years of experience to help you move forward with clarity, hope, and practical tools for change.
Start With or Without Your Spouse. The Growth Is Real Either Way!
Many members start this journey on their own. Some come in as a couple. Both paths lead to transformation —
because change begins with one willing heart.
🟤 Live Teachings
Biblically rooted and clinically sound guidance on real-life issues, hosted by a marriage counselor. Includes Q&A time with Jenna (& David as an occasional guest host) so your questions get answered on the spot!
🟤 Mini-Courses & Workshops
On-demand video lessons from an expert on marriage (who is also a Christian) designed to fit your busy schedule. Learn tools you can start using immediately in your day-to-day marriage to initiate change (even if your spouse doesn’t watch them with you)!
🟤 Live Support Groups
Join a judgment-free space to share, connect, and grow with other believers who have similar struggles. Each group starts with a short devotional or topic reflection — followed by discussion time.
🟤 Private Community Forum
Explore marriage resources, ask questions, leave prayer requests, find encouragement — and know you’re not walking this road alone.
Here is what you'll get every month:
What you will experience inside
Done In Love community:
What you will experience inside Done In Love Community:
What can change when you
become a member of Done In Love:
What can change when you become a member of
Done In Love:
This is not marriage counseling. This is marriage discipleship.
And this isn’t a collection of marriage sermons, either. Each session gives you practical guidance you can start using immediately — grounded in Scripture and mental health expertise.
So you won’t just hear truth — you’ll be equipped with the spiritual support and relational tools to live it out.
We’re Jenna and David — real people, with a real marriage that almost ended after addiction and infidelity. But by the grace of God, our story didn’t stop there. He redeemed us — and now we’re passionate about walking with others through the messy, meaningful work of healing and restoration.
Jenna is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist who’s spent over a decade helping couples work through everything from communication breakdowns and emotional disconnection to infertility and betrayal — always with compassion, clinical expertise, and a Christ-centered foundation.
David brings the honest, down-to-earth voice of a husband who’s walked through the fire and come out refined. He offers wisdom, encouragement, and a whole lot of grace from the perspective of someone walking it out every day.
Our heart is to walk with you — not above you — and to offer practical tools and encouragement in a safe space so you can heal and grow.
We believe God can redeem any story because He redeemed ours — and we’d be honored to walk alongside you as He writes yours.
Meet Jenna & David
- Master’s Degree, Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling, University of South Florida
- Graduate Certificate in Marriage and Family Therapy
- Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #MT2936
- Licensed Mental Health Counselor, #MH12899
- Certified Symbis Premarital Facilitator
- Gottman: Treating Affairs & Trauma
- Level 1: Gottman Method Couples Therapy
- Level 2: Gottman Method Couples Therapy
I know a thing or two about life & marriage, but don’t just take my word for it. Here are my credentials to back it:
The Results
This membership is for you if...…
This membership is NOT for you if...…
…and you want to lay a strong foundation before bad habits take root.
You’re eager to build a marriage grounded in trust, clear communication, and emotional connection.
✔️ You’ve Been Married for a While
…but the connection just isn’t what it used to be.
The spark feels distant, life has gotten in the way, and you’re ready to invest intentionally in growing together again — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
✔️ You’re Healing from Hurt
Maybe there’s been betrayal. Maybe addiction or emotional neglect has driven a wedge between you.
You want to rebuild — but you need real tools and a safe space to process the pain and move forward.
✔️ You’re Married to Someone Who Isn’t Ready
You’re willing to do the work — even if your spouse isn’t (yet).
You’re not here to nag or fix them… you just want to grow, learn, and invite God to move in your heart and home.
✔️You’re In It Together
You and your spouse are on the same page — you want to grow, but you're not sure how.
You’re looking for guidance that combines your faith with real, practical help for the challenges you face day to day.
"It takes two people to create a pattern, but only one person to change it." -Esther Perel
Whether you’re coming alone or as a couple — you don’t have to stay stuck.
Join The Done in Love Membership and take the next step toward a stronger, healthier marriage — with expert guidance you can trust.
➡️ Click below and get instant access to:
💍Live monthly teachings
💍Support groups
💍Mini-courses & Workshops
💍Private community forum
...the practical tools & professional support you need to heal, grow, and change!
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FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
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YES! We intentionally designed this membership to be an educational and relational support for everyone, whether or not their significant other participates. Every month, there will be specific material tailored to those working on their relationship alone.
WILL THIS STILL HELP MY RELATIONSHIP IF I AM THE ONLY ONE WATCHING THE MATERIAL?
Q
"Done In Love" has a dual meaning:
First, this reminds us that love is more than a feeling — it’s a choice, an action, a way of living. Second, it speaks to the moment so many couples find themselves in — when they feel done. Before you decide you’re “done with love,” we invite you to try something different — to pursue healing, connection, and truth done in love.
WHY IS IT CALLED "DONE IN LOVE?"
The material and information in this membership is intended to be of general informational and educational use and is not intended to constitute medical advice, mental health advice, probable diagnosis, recommended treatments, or professional advice.
Participants should consult with a licensed professional to get advice for their individual situation. If you believe you are in need of mental health intervention, please see a mental health practitioner as soon as possible.
Jenna is a therapist, but being a part of this membership does not mean she is your therapist.
